婚礼是一天的事，婚姻却是一辈子。
所以，我不需要你给我难忘的华丽婚礼。
我只需要你给我幸福的婚姻。 也就是我要你这辈子紧牵着我的手， 无论将来的日子是起还是落，谁也不准撇开对方的手，到我们终老为止。
你。。。能做到吗？
Monday, February 01, 2010
Monday, January 18, 2010
Wednesday, January 06, 2010
Flabbergasted...
Totally speechless when I saw this video report... Girl being openly groped by four men at Siloso Beach Countdown Party
Granted, as some of the people put it, the girl brought it upon herself by going to such beach parties, dressed in only skimpy bikinis, high on alcohol, she should expect it la, bla bla bla... but still, being openly groped like that , it's like...
...
In fact, I thought the girl looked totally drunk and dun think she had any strength to push the four men away, even if she wanted to -- as some of the people said she could have done.
And the scary part is, most pple said they won't want to get involved and help... I mean, grope her once, I guess I can somehow understand why pple won't help. But being touched all over like that for so long, and they were on stage some more, under so many pairs of eyes, it's just depressing or rather, unsettling to know that you are being molested and everyone sees and knows it but no one helps...
But one BIG question remains ~ where are her damn frens and how could they leave her alone like that?
Granted, as some of the people put it, the girl brought it upon herself by going to such beach parties, dressed in only skimpy bikinis, high on alcohol, she should expect it la, bla bla bla... but still, being openly groped like that , it's like...
...
In fact, I thought the girl looked totally drunk and dun think she had any strength to push the four men away, even if she wanted to -- as some of the people said she could have done.
And the scary part is, most pple said they won't want to get involved and help... I mean, grope her once, I guess I can somehow understand why pple won't help. But being touched all over like that for so long, and they were on stage some more, under so many pairs of eyes, it's just depressing or rather, unsettling to know that you are being molested and everyone sees and knows it but no one helps...
But one BIG question remains ~ where are her damn frens and how could they leave her alone like that?
Tuesday, January 05, 2010
生老病死
最近心不是很踏实。
老爸生病了。却又倔强地说要去开工，气得我对他好大声地说话。 那是凌晨四点半。 明明就还没完全康复嘛，还是会发抖，会头晕，还开什么工吗？
最后没办法，还是让他踏出家门去做工，在他出门之前无奈地提醒他要是感觉一不对就马上给我回家。 想必，我老妈也是不放心。老爸还出去不到10分钟，她就打电话提醒这个，提醒那个。
结果，晚上回来，他就说早上还好，下午就感觉很辛苦了。 现在很晕。。。
他不跟我说还好，他一说，我又开始我的唠叨。
“明明就叫你多休息一天，明天好点才去。你看啦? 真的是自找！你明天给我呆在家休息! ”
奇怪，我明明就是担心和心疼，但不知道为什么从口中出来的全是在“骂”老爸。 我也知道他明天四点半还是会起床去开工。
心不是很踏实 ~ 是因为老爸在我记忆里很少生病。
这次，又听他呕吐，又听他头晕，又听他说眼睛看东西模糊，又听他发冷，又听他出风磨，种种，种种。。。 越听就越不是滋味。
再加上自从姨丈在几年前去世了，我就很怕。我永远不会忘记那时，我根本就不敢进病房探望姨丈，因为我一看到他躺在病床上，眼泪就不能控制一直留个不停。
然后，这近几年来，也有朋友的老爸或老妈去世，我就更害怕。今天，又听闻一位同事的老爸去世了。。。
当然，是我想太多了，想到胡思乱想了。我当然也知道老爸这次只是平常的重伤风感冒。 他只要肯乖乖休息，就会很快好起来。
难怪有些人说老人家其实就像小孩子，要哄要唠叨才会听进去。。。
生老病死虽说是每个人的必经之路，每个人也会经历和最亲的人离别，但说真的，如果可以选择，谁又真的愿意呢？
老爸生病了。却又倔强地说要去开工，气得我对他好大声地说话。 那是凌晨四点半。 明明就还没完全康复嘛，还是会发抖，会头晕，还开什么工吗？
最后没办法，还是让他踏出家门去做工，在他出门之前无奈地提醒他要是感觉一不对就马上给我回家。 想必，我老妈也是不放心。老爸还出去不到10分钟，她就打电话提醒这个，提醒那个。
结果，晚上回来，他就说早上还好，下午就感觉很辛苦了。 现在很晕。。。
他不跟我说还好，他一说，我又开始我的唠叨。
“明明就叫你多休息一天，明天好点才去。你看啦? 真的是自找！你明天给我呆在家休息! ”
奇怪，我明明就是担心和心疼，但不知道为什么从口中出来的全是在“骂”老爸。 我也知道他明天四点半还是会起床去开工。
心不是很踏实 ~ 是因为老爸在我记忆里很少生病。
这次，又听他呕吐，又听他头晕，又听他说眼睛看东西模糊，又听他发冷，又听他出风磨，种种，种种。。。 越听就越不是滋味。
再加上自从姨丈在几年前去世了，我就很怕。我永远不会忘记那时，我根本就不敢进病房探望姨丈，因为我一看到他躺在病床上，眼泪就不能控制一直留个不停。
然后，这近几年来，也有朋友的老爸或老妈去世，我就更害怕。今天，又听闻一位同事的老爸去世了。。。
当然，是我想太多了，想到胡思乱想了。我当然也知道老爸这次只是平常的重伤风感冒。 他只要肯乖乖休息，就会很快好起来。
难怪有些人说老人家其实就像小孩子，要哄要唠叨才会听进去。。。
生老病死虽说是每个人的必经之路，每个人也会经历和最亲的人离别，但说真的，如果可以选择，谁又真的愿意呢？