Though his vocals is not as powerful and strong as Mr Jay Chou's, I thought it's still not too bad for a newbie singer! And the best part is he's so agile (at the beginning and end of the performance)!!! Awwwww....
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Saturday, February 21, 2009
I love my friends!
I came home last night, and for some I-also-don’t-know-what EMO reason, I just suddenly felt so comforted by the thought that I’m surrounded by many friends who love me just the way I am.
That’s important because I know I have several flaws that not all people can stand. I have a quick temper, am impatient, have no room for nonsensical stuff, can act like a total selfish, bitchy brat at times and the list can just go on and on…
As a few of them have already complained, I seldom take the initiative to ask to meet, and yet, when they ask to meet, they usually still have to accommodate to my schedule.
And it’s all thanks to my lazy bones – that I try not to go out on Sundays (or Monster day as the puffs call it), I don’t want to stay out too late on weekdays, which technically leave only Friday nights and Saturdays.
I just want to say a big Thank You and give a big bear hugz to:
My two other puffs, who have seen me through my lowest low (and highest high) for the past 13 years…
FY, who will always miraculously contact me at a time when I just need someone around – the kind of company when even total silence for the longest time will not be awkward at all… and who will shell prawns for me – just because I decided to act like a brat at times and did not want to get my fingers dirty!
Nan, who never fails to contact me every now and then, just to check I’m OK, and who never gets pissed with me for “flying aeroplanes” at times, or when I just decided to act nasty…
AM, who never fails to amuse me with the things she does and says.
PQ who always manages to make me (and the other two puffs) laugh and seem to always be able to dish out some good advice…
AW, who always shares with me her experiences over lunch.
AL, who recently became my punching bag, during times when I just needed to vent my frustrations. And who will just give me a reassuring pat on the shoulder thereafter.
And even JN who is always (or most of the time) readily available for me, no matter how late it is or how far away he is. And who never fails to scold me such that I am able to see things in a different light and from a different angle; yet, at the same time, never fails to encourage me to pursue my dreams and what I believe in.
And of course, several others like SP, JC, JA, PH, etc, etc…
I just want to let my friends know I really appreciate them from the bottom of my heart. Just as they love me the way I am, I also love them just the way they are (despite their flaws too!)
That’s important because I know I have several flaws that not all people can stand. I have a quick temper, am impatient, have no room for nonsensical stuff, can act like a total selfish, bitchy brat at times and the list can just go on and on…
As a few of them have already complained, I seldom take the initiative to ask to meet, and yet, when they ask to meet, they usually still have to accommodate to my schedule.
And it’s all thanks to my lazy bones – that I try not to go out on Sundays (or Monster day as the puffs call it), I don’t want to stay out too late on weekdays, which technically leave only Friday nights and Saturdays.
I just want to say a big Thank You and give a big bear hugz to:
My two other puffs, who have seen me through my lowest low (and highest high) for the past 13 years…
FY, who will always miraculously contact me at a time when I just need someone around – the kind of company when even total silence for the longest time will not be awkward at all… and who will shell prawns for me – just because I decided to act like a brat at times and did not want to get my fingers dirty!
Nan, who never fails to contact me every now and then, just to check I’m OK, and who never gets pissed with me for “flying aeroplanes” at times, or when I just decided to act nasty…
AM, who never fails to amuse me with the things she does and says.
PQ who always manages to make me (and the other two puffs) laugh and seem to always be able to dish out some good advice…
AW, who always shares with me her experiences over lunch.
AL, who recently became my punching bag, during times when I just needed to vent my frustrations. And who will just give me a reassuring pat on the shoulder thereafter.
And even JN who is always (or most of the time) readily available for me, no matter how late it is or how far away he is. And who never fails to scold me such that I am able to see things in a different light and from a different angle; yet, at the same time, never fails to encourage me to pursue my dreams and what I believe in.
And of course, several others like SP, JC, JA, PH, etc, etc…
I just want to let my friends know I really appreciate them from the bottom of my heart. Just as they love me the way I am, I also love them just the way they are (despite their flaws too!)
Monday, February 16, 2009
男人不坏，女人不爱
那天，朋友爆出一句“女人好贱。有男人对她好时，把她捧在手心里，她却对他置之不理。 另外一头却埋怨为什么另一个男人对她忽冷忽热，有时还会把自己气地暴跳如雷，又或者为他哭地稀里哗啦，却还是这么死心眼地对他一心一意。不知是要说女人贱，还是真的男人不坏，女人不爱。。。”
其实，我不这么觉得。
对把她捧在手心了的男人不为所动，是因为她不是打从心里的爱他。无论他为她做了什么，虽然，她会很感动，当感觉真的只限于感动。。。
感动和爱根本就是两回事。
也许，一时的空虚或感动会让这个女人觉得可以尝试和这个男人交往，可是，不是打从心里喜爱的，长远看来，会有实实在在的感觉吗？会能有那个能量去包容他在你眼里的不完美和所谓的缺点吗？
相反的，她能为另一个男人哭得死去活来，给他气地七孔冒烟，是因为在她心里，这个“坏”男人占了很重要的位子。她根本就不需要找任何理由，就是打从心里喜欢他，紧张他。就算这个男人怎么惹她生气，让她失望，事后，她还是很喜欢他，还是觉得他最棒。 她也会不知哪里来的肚量，可以包容他所有的不完美和所谓的缺点。
男人坏是因为他让女人哭；女人会为男人哭是因为她在乎他，是因为她真的很爱他。
一个男人能让一个女人为他流泪，一定有他在她心目中的价值，那，有价值的男人又怎能算是个坏男人？
再想想，哪一个男人在追一个女人的时候，不是把那个女人捧在手心里，不是一个好男人？当时间一久，相处久了，彼此舒服了，好男人“原形毕露”时，女人一定要一开始，就打从心里喜欢这个男人所有的点点滴滴；不然， 如果找不到那个肚量去包容和接受他的缺点，那，又何必浪费时间开始呢？
其实，我不这么觉得。
对把她捧在手心了的男人不为所动，是因为她不是打从心里的爱他。无论他为她做了什么，虽然，她会很感动，当感觉真的只限于感动。。。
感动和爱根本就是两回事。
也许，一时的空虚或感动会让这个女人觉得可以尝试和这个男人交往，可是，不是打从心里喜爱的，长远看来，会有实实在在的感觉吗？会能有那个能量去包容他在你眼里的不完美和所谓的缺点吗？
相反的，她能为另一个男人哭得死去活来，给他气地七孔冒烟，是因为在她心里，这个“坏”男人占了很重要的位子。她根本就不需要找任何理由，就是打从心里喜欢他，紧张他。就算这个男人怎么惹她生气，让她失望，事后，她还是很喜欢他，还是觉得他最棒。 她也会不知哪里来的肚量，可以包容他所有的不完美和所谓的缺点。
男人坏是因为他让女人哭；女人会为男人哭是因为她在乎他，是因为她真的很爱他。
一个男人能让一个女人为他流泪，一定有他在她心目中的价值，那，有价值的男人又怎能算是个坏男人？
再想想，哪一个男人在追一个女人的时候，不是把那个女人捧在手心里，不是一个好男人？当时间一久，相处久了，彼此舒服了，好男人“原形毕露”时，女人一定要一开始，就打从心里喜欢这个男人所有的点点滴滴；不然， 如果找不到那个肚量去包容和接受他的缺点，那，又何必浪费时间开始呢？
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
寻找一顆属于自己的星星。。。也要相信幸福是要自己争取的。。。
**swoons**
Love protects and perseveres. / Knowing your own feelings is not enough... You need to share that knowledge too!
幸福是。。。能够牵着对方的手到终老
Love protects and perseveres. / Knowing your own feelings is not enough... You need to share that knowledge too!
幸福是。。。能够牵着对方的手到终老
Friday, February 06, 2009
Today...
I always thought I am a very rational person, who would never, never, allow my emotions to mask my thoughts and action.
Again, I over-estimated myself.
I should have known better. If I could forgive someone last time for his betrayal and continued to stay by him thereafter, this case, being so much less severe, should be no exception…
I know I should stay away – especially given my mental and emotional state now. But I still finally relented after trying hard on several occasions NOT to reply his msn/sms and even cut his call off.
I tried. I really did.
Butter was updated in real time, and she was very angry and even let out a few expletives. She does not understand why he came over to look for me and why I EVEN foolishly agreed to meet him.
I don’t too.
I wanted to ask if he came over because he did not hear from me for the past few days, and if that constitutes to the question that if he actually misses me. And if so, doesn’t that mean anything on his part?
But I shut off that thought as soon as it came. What’s the point?
Anyway, we've just met. The meeting was a short one and was just some casual catching up on the past week - about what he did for the past few days, about what I would be doing that evening, about his and my jobs, etc, etc.
Surprisingly, I am not feeling and thinking about anything. SC said it’s good. She said it’s OK that I met him – so long as I don’t feel upset, angry, or any other emotions thereafter – then it’s OK…
Let’s hope this “numb” feeling would continue and history such as what had happened last weekend would not happen tomorrow.
Again, I over-estimated myself.
I should have known better. If I could forgive someone last time for his betrayal and continued to stay by him thereafter, this case, being so much less severe, should be no exception…
I know I should stay away – especially given my mental and emotional state now. But I still finally relented after trying hard on several occasions NOT to reply his msn/sms and even cut his call off.
I tried. I really did.
Butter was updated in real time, and she was very angry and even let out a few expletives. She does not understand why he came over to look for me and why I EVEN foolishly agreed to meet him.
I don’t too.
I wanted to ask if he came over because he did not hear from me for the past few days, and if that constitutes to the question that if he actually misses me. And if so, doesn’t that mean anything on his part?
But I shut off that thought as soon as it came. What’s the point?
Anyway, we've just met. The meeting was a short one and was just some casual catching up on the past week - about what he did for the past few days, about what I would be doing that evening, about his and my jobs, etc, etc.
Surprisingly, I am not feeling and thinking about anything. SC said it’s good. She said it’s OK that I met him – so long as I don’t feel upset, angry, or any other emotions thereafter – then it’s OK…
Let’s hope this “numb” feeling would continue and history such as what had happened last weekend would not happen tomorrow.